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Post by blu on Dec 27, 2007 21:57:03 GMT -5
Well...I have this...platonic love for this guy at my school. Well, it's starting to get uncontrollable and I'm shouting his name when I'm alone and I even say his name in a whisper when I'm not. I stare at his picture and I poke into his facebook at least a five times a day. I think about him and often, that's all I want to think about. I often think if he would like something I did or what...and I just...feel weird. Is this unnatural, is this uncommon in people, I don't really know where else to put this? but I thought I would ask a primarily straight community this time.
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Post by Weird Rob 87 on Dec 31, 2007 22:57:51 GMT -5
Kudos for you for putting this in a 'straight' community place. I'd offer advice but.. I don't think it would be all that good in the end.
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Post by blu on Dec 31, 2007 23:12:00 GMT -5
Well, can I hear it anyway?
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Post by Weird Rob 87 on Jan 1, 2008 1:02:58 GMT -5
Sure, if you deeply feel for the guy.. you could try and talk to him about it. The worst that could happen is him rejecting you. Along with any other bad things.. But yeah, never know what will happen until you try and speak to him.
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Post by Shooshoo on Jan 1, 2008 7:28:15 GMT -5
I dunno though, is this guy you like strait? if he is he might be shocked and unnerved by a confession from you of your feelings. I'm tempted to advise caution until you suss out what his views are on homosexuality etc, that way you would be able to see how he might react to your confession, if all else fails try to remain good but platonic friends. I suppose its better to have him in your life as a friend than not in your life due to possible prejudice & rejection.
I wish you all the best for 2008 hun.
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Post by blu on Jan 9, 2008 23:45:39 GMT -5
Thanks, I want to talk to him about it, and I'm trying to befriend him more, but it's really hard. When you always feel like throwing up when you even think about him and then when I get to speaking to him I have to get away as soon as possible because I probably will throw up. I mean, I can say hey to him on some occasions, but it's really hard because I'm so nervous of his reaction. I don't want a bad reaction from him about anything. I'll try to find his views on homosexuality, he has a girlfriend, but I think he might be bisexual. (I'm bisexual, by the way everyone )
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Post by Weird Rob 87 on Jan 10, 2008 17:21:12 GMT -5
Ah.. well good luck dude. Who knows, even despite him having a girl, he may also be bi.
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Post by blu on Jan 12, 2008 19:33:43 GMT -5
I know, that's sort of what I'm hoping. I was able to talk to him on a trip I went on this weekend, I don't know if I'll be able to do that at school, but I hope I can.
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Post by Weird Rob 87 on Jan 12, 2008 21:07:37 GMT -5
Good luck and hopefully you can.
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Post by blu on Jan 13, 2008 0:23:03 GMT -5
Yeah...I just...I keep getting this nervous feeling that when I'm around him, usually. So if that comes up again, it might prevent me from wanting to say anything.
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Post by Shooshoo on Jan 13, 2008 18:38:09 GMT -5
Well just be careful blu, try and hold your feelings in check until you know how the land lies with this boy, he could be bisexual but then again he could be strait and if you confide in him he could be nasty and spread nasty rumors around school.
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Post by blu on Jan 13, 2008 23:55:42 GMT -5
I don't think that he would do that. I talked with him over the weekend on our school trip and I noticed that he was ten times nicer than I thought he was. It doesn't seem like something he would do. I have been holding my feelings in for him and I feel I'll eventually explode. I want to tell him but then again, I don't.
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Post by Shooshoo on Jan 14, 2008 8:42:59 GMT -5
Perhaps you are subconsciously aware he is probably strait and would only ever see you as a friend, do you think you could cope with that blu if it turned out to be tha case?
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Post by blu on Jan 14, 2008 20:05:21 GMT -5
It'd probably be really hard to cope with, but yes, if I could at least be his friend I would be just fine with that, I mean, for a long time we didn't even talk, but now he's started talking to me more and I've felt better, but I've grown to love him more because I didn't notice just how nice he was until we started talking agian.
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